We spent the weekend at some friends who we have played with a few times before: John and Clarissa. We've known John a long long time and, although he and Clarissa have been together less than a year, we have all got very close very quickly :-)
Now, like I've said before, this blog is about the reality of swinging not just the balls-deep-in-pussy fantasy. So, while this might have been a story about swapping while the kids slept upstairs, or about fucking in a sex club with a group of onlookers - both of which were on the cards at one point or another this weekend - instead, it was about four of us cuddling up on the sofa together and watching some telly.
"Lame", you might say. Or you might wonder why I'm writing about it on a blog that is about sex and swinging. But I guess my point is that, at least for us (and I'm very willing to accept there may be other schools of thought), it's all about creating an atmosphere where everyone can feel relaxed and happy. And that means, as much as anything else, being comfortable enough to say "no" when it's not what you want, without fear of causing upset or resentment.
So I'm proud that we have a relationship with J & C that is open and uninhibited enough not only for us to be able to get naked together and play, but also for any of us to say that we aren't feeling it for whatever reason, and for us to hang out as close friends and have a great time together, with our clothes on :)
Trist
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