About this blog

This blog contains the diaries and musings of a real married swinging couple: about how swinging fits into (and enriches) our real lives, and the discoveries we've made about ourselves and each other along the way. 

It's about sex, so it's going to get sexy (although of course, "sexy" is subjective), but the primary objective here is honesty, not arousal. It's the warts-and-all reality we want to talk about here, not a sanitised / simplified / airbrushed version of events.

Hopefully, along the way we can dispel a few myths, as well as have a few laughs :-)

Trist & Issy xx