Infidelity

Up until recently we've always had a pretty hard line on playing with people who don't have their partner's consent. But as with soooo many of the rules we've made, this one seems to have slipped a bit, having come up against it (so to speak) while horny...

So, to begin with, as anyone who has been on swinging websites for any amount of time will know, almost everyone is looking for single females to come play with them, and there are not many of them around. Conversely, single males are plentiful, to say the least.

If you're a reasonably young, attractive couple on one of these sites, you can expect a LOT of offers from guys and you can afford to be pretty picky - and I'm sure it's that times a million if you're a hot single female. It's entirely normal for couples and single females to block single males altogether, or to have pretty brutal requirements on their profile: VWE guys only, 8" or more, must be hung like a donkey, and so on ;-) So, if you are fortunate enough to have a sexy woman contact *you*, you need to grab her with both hands hehe ;-P

So, sitting there with a hard cock, looking at pics of a hot 24yo girl who wants to come fuck us both, when she says "I do have a bf but he doesn't know about this", oddly enough, it starts to seem very much like *her* business ;-)

In fact, once you've made that decision, it starts to become more than a little flattering - chatting to her online and getting her to play with herself while her boyfriend is in the next room was a big turn-on, much as I thought I would never be able to compartmentalise enough to enjoy that. We are planning a meet with her when we can arrange it (not easy!), so watch this space... :-P

But, for better or for worse, our recent throwing of the rule book out the window didn't stop there.

We have a married friend, Tom, who is an actor with a touring theatre company, and sometimes he stays with us for the night when he is in the area. He knows about us being swingers, and we've (somewhat unkindly) teased him with pictures of Issy in various states of undress / fuckedness on several occasions before. He and Issy actually fucked before the two of us were together, and it's been clear for some time that a repeat of that would make them both very happy. However, we've always ruled that out, on account of him having a young family and we really would not feel happy being the ones to jeopardise that.

So - what changed? Did we just decide one day not to give a fuck?

Not exactly - or at least I *hope* that's not what happened. Tom confessed to us that things had not been great in his marriage for a long time. He told us he had had an affair, not just of the lust variety, but of the heart as well, and that he'd thought of leaving his wife and family, but had decided to stay and try to make the best of it. He also told us he'd had other sexual encounters, including a threesome with another couple.

At some point during this long conversation, as we gave him what advice we could and tried to help him figure things out, it became obvious that any playing we might do would be irrelevant - a night of meaningless fucking is not (at least to our minds) a big deal compared to falling in love with someone else. So he became just a friend in need of comfort (albeit a dashing, tall, blonde, sexy one hehe) and so comfort him we did - or rather mostly Issy did ;-) I opted to take quite a back seat and just watch Issy go to work on him - I love seeing her give another guy a treat - and mmmmmmmmmm she did a good job :-P

When he was spent, I put my cock in her mouth and she sucked down my cum while Tom watched, and then we sent him off to bed with a smile on his face ;-)

I'm not exactly proud of this - in fact, I would be very sad if his wife ever found out, because I'm pretty sure it would really hurt her. But I don't see any reason for that to happen and, ultimately, it is up to Tom what level of honesty he is comfortable with in his relationship - and I'm not sure anyone on the outside has all the facts to pass judgement on that.

I guess that means that place in the special hell is fully reserved for us now. But, as we've said before, at least a lot of our friends will be there :-P

Trist