I thought it was worth sharing that, the week before last, we had a lot of fun with a Swedish guy we met on a swinging website :)
It was quite unusual because I knew practically nothing about him - I'd seen a couple of pics and read a couple of brief text messages, but Issy had a good feeling about him, so we just kind of skipped to the end and invited him over :-P
As it turns out, Issy was spot on - he was a great guy - very funny and absolutely on our wavelength. Issy dressed up in tight shiny leggings for him, which he told us beforehand he has a thing for, and after they were peeled off, she got a very thorough rimming ;-) Not something we have done a lot, but perhaps that might change, because it certainly seemed to have a very well received effect :-P
We also talked about some of the bizarre social situations swinging puts you in - even after having just fucked my wife and cum on her pussy, it could still be ever so slightly awkward asking for refill of a drink lol ;-)
All in all, we had a very hot evening, full of dirtiness and lots of laughter. Hope we'll see him again before too long...
Trist
Sunday, 10 June 2012
Tuesday, 5 June 2012
Infidelity
Up until recently we've always had a pretty hard line on playing with people who don't have their partner's consent. But as with soooo many of the rules we've made, this one seems to have slipped a bit, having come up against it (so to speak) while horny...
So, to begin with, as anyone who has been on swinging websites for any amount of time will know, almost everyone is looking for single females to come play with them, and there are not many of them around. Conversely, single males are plentiful, to say the least.
If you're a reasonably young, attractive couple on one of these sites, you can expect a LOT of offers from guys and you can afford to be pretty picky - and I'm sure it's that times a million if you're a hot single female. It's entirely normal for couples and single females to block single males altogether, or to have pretty brutal requirements on their profile: VWE guys only, 8" or more, must be hung like a donkey, and so on ;-) So, if you are fortunate enough to have a sexy woman contact *you*, you need to grab her with both hands hehe ;-P
So, sitting there with a hard cock, looking at pics of a hot 24yo girl who wants to come fuck us both, when she says "I do have a bf but he doesn't know about this", oddly enough, it starts to seem very much like *her* business ;-)
In fact, once you've made that decision, it starts to become more than a little flattering - chatting to her online and getting her to play with herself while her boyfriend is in the next room was a big turn-on, much as I thought I would never be able to compartmentalise enough to enjoy that. We are planning a meet with her when we can arrange it (not easy!), so watch this space... :-P
But, for better or for worse, our recent throwing of the rule book out the window didn't stop there.
We have a married friend, Tom, who is an actor with a touring theatre company, and sometimes he stays with us for the night when he is in the area. He knows about us being swingers, and we've (somewhat unkindly) teased him with pictures of Issy in various states of undress / fuckedness on several occasions before. He and Issy actually fucked before the two of us were together, and it's been clear for some time that a repeat of that would make them both very happy. However, we've always ruled that out, on account of him having a young family and we really would not feel happy being the ones to jeopardise that.
So - what changed? Did we just decide one day not to give a fuck?
Not exactly - or at least I *hope* that's not what happened. Tom confessed to us that things had not been great in his marriage for a long time. He told us he had had an affair, not just of the lust variety, but of the heart as well, and that he'd thought of leaving his wife and family, but had decided to stay and try to make the best of it. He also told us he'd had other sexual encounters, including a threesome with another couple.
At some point during this long conversation, as we gave him what advice we could and tried to help him figure things out, it became obvious that any playing we might do would be irrelevant - a night of meaningless fucking is not (at least to our minds) a big deal compared to falling in love with someone else. So he became just a friend in need of comfort (albeit a dashing, tall, blonde, sexy one hehe) and so comfort him we did - or rather mostly Issy did ;-) I opted to take quite a back seat and just watch Issy go to work on him - I love seeing her give another guy a treat - and mmmmmmmmmm she did a good job :-P
When he was spent, I put my cock in her mouth and she sucked down my cum while Tom watched, and then we sent him off to bed with a smile on his face ;-)
I'm not exactly proud of this - in fact, I would be very sad if his wife ever found out, because I'm pretty sure it would really hurt her. But I don't see any reason for that to happen and, ultimately, it is up to Tom what level of honesty he is comfortable with in his relationship - and I'm not sure anyone on the outside has all the facts to pass judgement on that.
I guess that means that place in the special hell is fully reserved for us now. But, as we've said before, at least a lot of our friends will be there :-P
Trist
So, to begin with, as anyone who has been on swinging websites for any amount of time will know, almost everyone is looking for single females to come play with them, and there are not many of them around. Conversely, single males are plentiful, to say the least.
If you're a reasonably young, attractive couple on one of these sites, you can expect a LOT of offers from guys and you can afford to be pretty picky - and I'm sure it's that times a million if you're a hot single female. It's entirely normal for couples and single females to block single males altogether, or to have pretty brutal requirements on their profile: VWE guys only, 8" or more, must be hung like a donkey, and so on ;-) So, if you are fortunate enough to have a sexy woman contact *you*, you need to grab her with both hands hehe ;-P
So, sitting there with a hard cock, looking at pics of a hot 24yo girl who wants to come fuck us both, when she says "I do have a bf but he doesn't know about this", oddly enough, it starts to seem very much like *her* business ;-)
In fact, once you've made that decision, it starts to become more than a little flattering - chatting to her online and getting her to play with herself while her boyfriend is in the next room was a big turn-on, much as I thought I would never be able to compartmentalise enough to enjoy that. We are planning a meet with her when we can arrange it (not easy!), so watch this space... :-P
But, for better or for worse, our recent throwing of the rule book out the window didn't stop there.
We have a married friend, Tom, who is an actor with a touring theatre company, and sometimes he stays with us for the night when he is in the area. He knows about us being swingers, and we've (somewhat unkindly) teased him with pictures of Issy in various states of undress / fuckedness on several occasions before. He and Issy actually fucked before the two of us were together, and it's been clear for some time that a repeat of that would make them both very happy. However, we've always ruled that out, on account of him having a young family and we really would not feel happy being the ones to jeopardise that.
So - what changed? Did we just decide one day not to give a fuck?
Not exactly - or at least I *hope* that's not what happened. Tom confessed to us that things had not been great in his marriage for a long time. He told us he had had an affair, not just of the lust variety, but of the heart as well, and that he'd thought of leaving his wife and family, but had decided to stay and try to make the best of it. He also told us he'd had other sexual encounters, including a threesome with another couple.
At some point during this long conversation, as we gave him what advice we could and tried to help him figure things out, it became obvious that any playing we might do would be irrelevant - a night of meaningless fucking is not (at least to our minds) a big deal compared to falling in love with someone else. So he became just a friend in need of comfort (albeit a dashing, tall, blonde, sexy one hehe) and so comfort him we did - or rather mostly Issy did ;-) I opted to take quite a back seat and just watch Issy go to work on him - I love seeing her give another guy a treat - and mmmmmmmmmm she did a good job :-P
When he was spent, I put my cock in her mouth and she sucked down my cum while Tom watched, and then we sent him off to bed with a smile on his face ;-)
I'm not exactly proud of this - in fact, I would be very sad if his wife ever found out, because I'm pretty sure it would really hurt her. But I don't see any reason for that to happen and, ultimately, it is up to Tom what level of honesty he is comfortable with in his relationship - and I'm not sure anyone on the outside has all the facts to pass judgement on that.
I guess that means that place in the special hell is fully reserved for us now. But, as we've said before, at least a lot of our friends will be there :-P
Trist
Losing it... (part 2)
So, I guess a key turning point for me was finding music or, more specifically, being in a band. By the time I was 14 or 15, I'd learnt to play the guitar sufficiently well to impress a few people at parties with some riffs, and started up a band with a few guys I knew. It was the only band in our year group, and was therefore the coolest ;-) So we played a bunch of dirty punk at various parties and sounded like shit, but it got me noticed and, most importantly, got me to the place where, miraculously, I found myself being pursued rather than having to do the chasing myself :-)
So that bought me a lot of chances to talk to girls, a few slow dances and (with hindsight) some very VERY obvious flirting, but I was still too much of a chicken to make the next move. Looking back now, it's unbelievable how thick I was - what exactly did I *think* it meant when a girl spent a whole party sitting on my lap with her arms around me!? And, as we'll see, I did not get to be any less of a dumbass any time soon lol ;-)
Various cringeworthy anecdotes follow on from this, which perhaps I'll fill in at some point, but eventually, I heard on the grapevine that there were three different girls who "fancied" me and was advised by my less-fuckwit-than-me male friends that I should basically pick one. One of these was an Iberian rock chick named Natasha, who I thought was pretty cool and who most certainly made stirrings in my teenage trousers ;-) And, as luck would have it, a few of us were invited to her house for her 16th birthday party the following weekend.
In what can only be described as an idiotic display of blindness and naivety, I proceeded to spend the entire night with her on the sofa, cuddling, stroking and eventually sleeping, but I still didn't pluck up the courage to try and kiss her. Why I didn't is kind of baffling to me now but, from what I can remember, I think I was incredulous that she might actually think I was hot, and so, even in the face of frankly overwhelming evidence to the contrary, I failed to believe she wanted me to make a move. Doh!
Anyway, we hung out a lot on lunch breaks after that, chatted extensively and held hands (awwww) and I eventually got around to asking her out - to see a movie. I guess something finally clicked before that first date and, in somewhat of a Jekyl & Hyde reversal of previous events, this time I went in all tongues blazing ;-) And so, in the grand tradition of horny teenagers, we sat in the back row and snogged and missed the entire film :-P
We went out for many months - a LONG time when you're a teenager - and most of my first real sexual experiences happened with Natasha during that time. I remember lots of fumbling with press studs on the bottom of the bodies she used to wear, and excited phone calls to my best friend to tell him I'd played with her tits, or "fingered her" or that I'd licked her pussy. Such innocent, dirty fun mmmmm :-P
But we didn't go the whole hog, so to speak. With hindsight, I think the main reason why is that I just had *no* idea how to talk about it, no clue how to even begin the conversation. If only I knew then what I knew now hehe...
Trist
So that bought me a lot of chances to talk to girls, a few slow dances and (with hindsight) some very VERY obvious flirting, but I was still too much of a chicken to make the next move. Looking back now, it's unbelievable how thick I was - what exactly did I *think* it meant when a girl spent a whole party sitting on my lap with her arms around me!? And, as we'll see, I did not get to be any less of a dumbass any time soon lol ;-)
Various cringeworthy anecdotes follow on from this, which perhaps I'll fill in at some point, but eventually, I heard on the grapevine that there were three different girls who "fancied" me and was advised by my less-fuckwit-than-me male friends that I should basically pick one. One of these was an Iberian rock chick named Natasha, who I thought was pretty cool and who most certainly made stirrings in my teenage trousers ;-) And, as luck would have it, a few of us were invited to her house for her 16th birthday party the following weekend.
In what can only be described as an idiotic display of blindness and naivety, I proceeded to spend the entire night with her on the sofa, cuddling, stroking and eventually sleeping, but I still didn't pluck up the courage to try and kiss her. Why I didn't is kind of baffling to me now but, from what I can remember, I think I was incredulous that she might actually think I was hot, and so, even in the face of frankly overwhelming evidence to the contrary, I failed to believe she wanted me to make a move. Doh!
Anyway, we hung out a lot on lunch breaks after that, chatted extensively and held hands (awwww) and I eventually got around to asking her out - to see a movie. I guess something finally clicked before that first date and, in somewhat of a Jekyl & Hyde reversal of previous events, this time I went in all tongues blazing ;-) And so, in the grand tradition of horny teenagers, we sat in the back row and snogged and missed the entire film :-P
We went out for many months - a LONG time when you're a teenager - and most of my first real sexual experiences happened with Natasha during that time. I remember lots of fumbling with press studs on the bottom of the bodies she used to wear, and excited phone calls to my best friend to tell him I'd played with her tits, or "fingered her" or that I'd licked her pussy. Such innocent, dirty fun mmmmm :-P
But we didn't go the whole hog, so to speak. With hindsight, I think the main reason why is that I just had *no* idea how to talk about it, no clue how to even begin the conversation. If only I knew then what I knew now hehe...
Trist
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